By Precious Momoh
Nigerian crossdresser Idris Okuneye, popularly known as Bobrisky, has ignited fresh controversy with his latest statement about experiencing menstruation. Through a social media post, the polarizing personality declared that he suffers from painful periods, claiming it brings him closer to femininity.
“Honestly, I feel like I am a complete woman. Sometimes I break down whenever I am seeing period cos it’s painful,” Bobrisky wrote in his post, sparking an avalanche of reactions online.
The statement has added to the crossdresser’s long history of provocative comments that challenge societal norms and expectations. Currently abroad, Bobrisky asserts that these monthly experiences validate his sense of being a woman.
Social Media Backlash
Bobrisky’s claim drew intense backlash, particularly from women and gender activists, who accused him of trivializing biological experiences unique to women. One user, blessedprinx_cosmetics, criticized, “The mockery on womanhood from this guy is something else.” Others questioned the biological plausibility of his statement, with user ndukwu_nwanyinma asserting, “No doctor fit do that one. Na there God pass them.”
Critics argued that such statements make light of the genuine struggles faced by women, including menstrual pain. Several netizens also pointed out that Bobrisky’s audience, consisting predominantly of women, fuels his controversial stardom, with one user stating, “80% of his supporters are women.”
Bobrisky’s comment has not only raised eyebrows but also provoked a broader discussion about gender identity and societal expectations. While his supporters view such statements as part of his persona, detractors feel they undermine the authenticity of women’s lived experiences.
Bobrisky, known for pushing boundaries, remains unapologetic in his self-expression. However, many continue to question where to draw the line between personal identity and societal sensitivity, especially when it intersects with biological realities.
Bobrisky’s bold statements may challenge norms, but they also underscore the nuanced and often contentious nature of conversations about gender and identity in contemporary society.